About Me

we both love to drink pickle juice. Yes, from the jar. And no, not the sweet kind. you can also see more info and pics about us at www.myspace.com under the name dancing feather.

Friday, September 28, 2007





My husband...What is his name? Brent Alan

How long have you been together? Since December 5, 2003. Got married in Boston October 9th, 2004.

First Date: He took me to Salt Lake- Macaroni Grill and walking around Temple Square. We also ended up at Starbucks, I think- for the now traditional Caramel Apple Cider. It was so warm for December that year, and he just stared at me while I ate my dinner. Made me self-conscious, because I have always been a girl to eat well on a date!

First kiss: At his apartment, about a week or so after we started dating. Man his lips were the most beautiful thing I had ever seen in my life. Truly, they tasted even better. =O)

How old is he? 30

Who eats more? Unless it's a platter of brownies- him.

Who said I love you first? He Did. It took me a lot longer, but I admired his bravery!

Who is taller? I'm 5'7", he's 6'2". Perfect for even my tallest heels...

Who sings better? I'm more trained than he is, but his voice is surprisingly unique and pleasant. That sounds funny, but it's true!

Who is smarter? English, Literature, Finances, Cooking, Art, Music: me. Everything else? Him.

Who does the laundry? Both of us, whoever thinks of it first.

Who does the dishes? Mostly him, since I cook- and it's a hard rule- whoever cooks don't clean.

Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? I do. Ha, like Natalie- I want him closer to the door. I just sleep easier!

Who pays the bills? Me. With my spread-sheet-tracking-anal-retentiveness-supporting-system.

Who mows the lawn? Him. With his brand new (not so inexpensive) Honda 5000 (or something like that) mower. "But Monica, we'll never have to buy another mower again!"

Who cooks dinner? Me. Unless I want Hawaiian Haystacks or chicken quesadillas.

Who drives when you are together? Him, unless he's faking being so tired he can't keep his eyes open...wait a minute, that little ars!

Who is more stubborn? Probably me.

Who is the first to admit when they're wrong? He does. Hands down.

Whose parents do you see the most? Sigh, his. Mine are 3,000 miles away. His are 45 minutes.

Who kissed who first? He kissed me. But it was fairly mutual...you know, when you don't break the gaze? It was magic. And is still the thing I enjoy doing most on this earth. Well....maybe not the most....

Who proposed? Him. At the same place and time (apprx. 1 a.m.) May 23rd, 2004 where we had hung out the first night we met. He had put it off for almost a month because I had gotten (of all things) walking pneumonia, and was still a hacking, stuffed up, incapacitated girl. But when he had the ring, he couldn't wait any more. I'm glad.

Who is more sensitive? Both of us fairly equally. He's not afraid to cry and I love that about him, in fact every male in his entire family boo-hoo's about something on a regular basis. It's the most peculiar thing to see, seeing as I have still never seen my father shed a tear. But, when in Rome...cry with them.

Who has more friends? Him. Definitely. I have fewer, but they're more bosom buddies than just hang out friends. I prefer it that way.

Who has more siblings? He has 5. I have 2. He wins.

Who wears the pants in the family? Occasionally, he likes to don a pleated skirt...and I let him!

Friday, September 21, 2007

The Rules are:
1) Players, you must list one fact that is somehow relevant to your life for each letter of your middle name. (If you don't have a middle name, use the middle name that you wish you had.)
2) When tagged, you need to write your own blog post containing your own middle name facts.
3) At the end of your blog post, you need to choose one person for each letter of your middle name to tag. Don't forget to leave a comment telling them that they're tagged and to read your blog.

R - ridiculous: like telling brent how to landscape or build a house. or crying over my stupid chicken thighs that just would not cook all the way through! or climbing bridal veil waterfall barefoot. or driving across country without a map. on purpose. or rapping into a recorder with two other white skinned un-rap-able people. or...

A - "atom bomb, baby!" : haha. never fails to make me laugh, my hubby. and yes, i do like thinking of myself as a kind of bomb...i do tend to go off occasionally, sometimes i cause collateral, sometimes i feel 'bombish,' but no matter how the day goes, i do know i'm a great (though potentially dangerous) invention!

I - indestructible: with everything i've been through; i'm still here. and that is definitely, among other things, a miracle! when i open my eyes after thinking that somehow i'd exploded or spontaneously combusted, i'm quite frankly surprised to look down and see that i'm still all in one piece. apparently, i'm rather tough. =O)

TAG: Briana & Kayla

Monday, September 10, 2007

My Family

my brother jacob and his side kick, Apx. My beautiful sister Katrina Jane. Trouble makers Memphis and Hazel. Sweet Jacob. And my mother with her new hat. It was so good to see my family, I miss them so much.




Saturday, September 8, 2007

The Thousand Islands


this beautiful, beautiful place

rainbow over boldt castle

brent and i braving a fabulous storm

my dad piloting the pontoon boat and brad in the background

katrina and kandace: river mermaids

the view from our porch

The Thousand Islands. And yes, the 1000 Islands Salad dressing also was inspired by this place. Nestled in the great St. Lawrence River, there are over 1800 Islands known, starting at the mouth of the river from Lake Ontario, and flowing thousands of miles out to the Atlantic ocean. This river forms the natural border between the U.S. and Canada, and seems to be little known. My family has been coming up to the 1000 Islands since the 1920's, my siblings and I are the fourth generation so far. I have never been anywhere that heals me as much as this sacred place. The Native American's called it Manitouana, or "The Garden of the Great Spirit." Legend says that the Great Spirit was angered by the constant warring between the various tribes, and offered a bountiful and beautiful garden, "Manitouana," if they would cease their warring and live in peace. For a time, they did, but when the fighting began again the Great Spirit gathered up his garden in a blanket, but it tore as he rose, and the garden fell in a thousand pieces, creating the garden we know today. Another version I have heard is that when the Great Spirit rose with the garden in his blanket, that through the small rip a thousand flowers slipped through the hole, and when they landed in the water below they became Islands. Wherever the truth lies, there is no doubt that this place is an Eden on earth.

July with Jacob


grandma's great adventure trophies

sweet, sweet boy

rafting down provo river

silly with cousins thatcher, aynslea & ella

the bandana family up parley's canyon
action shot! jacob with hazel & memphis